Victim of domestic abuse ?
"It can't happen to me" is what we all think - before it does ...and then its very frightening and the impact can last from childhood through into adult relationships. Only you can set the time and pace and plan your recovery - we are here to help you plan and move on as and when you are ready
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Been made redundant? Lost your Job?
Losing your job is a pretty big change for you and your family to cope with. Anger, guilt, loss of identity..... "Why me?" all come tumbling in Survival and recovery can be an emotional and financial rollercoaster Survivor Coaching focuses on realistic planning and achievable goals - the world we live in changes too fast to focus on anything else
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Retirement
Growing old is scary enough. Stopping work is not just about a reduced income its about loss of friends loss of purpose and identity. The impact is on both partners in a relationship - its a milestone and a lifestyle change for both of you.
Bereavement
Whether you have been close or distant, whether the death is expected or sudden, peaceful or painful...... Bereavement always hits us where we least expect it. Senses of loss, guilt, even anger are common. Moving on and dealing with a whole new world without..... is hard to do by yourself.
Confused? What Next? Should I?......
We've all been there and we know how desperate it can feel...... Everything is going on fine and then...... Good coaches ask the right questions at the right time. Coaches often ask hard questions - the ones you don't really want to face up to - but in the relationship of trust that you build up with your coach their complete objectivity helps you to make the right choices for yourself.
Divorce and Separation
It may have been on the cards for years but it is always a major shock. Especially if there are children to be considered. Coping with new partners as well as all the old animosities and baggage of the old relationship, sorting out finances..... it becomes an all consuming nightmare flurry of activity if you aren't either very lucky or maybe a bit too level headed. Most of us need to re assess a load of our assumptions at the end of any relationship and coaching is a pretty good way to gain a direction
Want Children but Can't Have Them?
Only people who have experienced the emptiness this brings can really understand the position. Most people spend a good deal of time deliberately avoiding having children for personal, career and relationship reasons....... and then some suddenly discover that when they most want children they are not going to have them..... at least not easily.
Bullied? Harassed? Intimidated?
Whether it is in the workplace and this is far more common than many people realise, or within the family and friends grouping or the heritage of being bullied at school the effects can last for years and only you wil lknow when it is right for you to confront either the bullies or the damage they have done over the years Coaching helps to clarify realistic stages and objectives for surviving and fighting back
Cancer Survival
The ever improving recovery rates from life threatening cancers and other diseases are a product of both medical science often helped by a positive mental outlook. The dilemmas come when you "get the all clear" and start to consider the future beyond next week or next month...... Adjusting to having a future life can be just as hard as adjusting to being told that you may not have much longer to live. It's the calmness of an experienced coach with a professional medical background that can really help you here.
